two shades of gray

I had hoped to raise my kids with compassion, and consideration of others. To do what is right, and to think of God in those decisions. As I am know an Adult, I struggle with past decisions and current decisions. I dont always make the right ones, its a struggle every day, but I would hope to teach my kids what my mother didn't show or teach me. It seems I have failed. My daughters are selfish, disloyal, mean spirited human beings. and I am heartbroken. They have no compassion for anyone unless it benefits them. They do not think past themselves unless they are told to. I have failed. God please help them.