reality

I had a discussion with him just now...first it was a general discussion, but at the end of it, a windows opened just slightly into what kind of person he really is.. a closed minded, judgemental, insensitive man. But wait...its my fault he is that way..lol. unbelievable, as if I was the mother figure that didn't teach him how to treat a woman..or was the father figure that didn't show him how to respect a woman, or better yet, I am the society that forces him to not act like an adult and be able to decide between bitterness and forgiveness, or sensitivity or inconsideration... what a kid...how can I expect him to help me raise me my kids, if he has finished growing up. wow..